Thursday, May 27, 2010

It Takes Courage 2 Hope

Well this post is about a friend of mine, Jerin(name changed) whose brother Joshin(name changed) is suffering from autism and Joshin is 5 years old.
Jerin's family has taken his brother to all the big hospitals in the country for treatment but all in vain.Doctors say that they should have brought the child at an early stage coz its difficult to diagnose after an age of 4-5 years.

One day i asked him what is that makes you hope that your brother will be able to lead a normal life.Suddenly he turns red in face and fumes at me "are you saying he will not be able to lead a normal life?" then he gave me a look as if he wanted to wring my neck and suddenly left the place. It was then i realised may be he misunderstood me.

I met him after two days and apologized to him to which he just smiled.Then he went on to tell me a story about a young man who was deeply in love with a beautiful girl. Both studied in the same college but the problem was the girl loved someone else.After college the girl gets married. Boy leaves the city and decides never to marry anyone else.

"Now what has this to do with us?" i asked. With the same smile on his face he replies "that boy is my father and the beautiful girl is my mother now."
he continues "my father left the city with a hope that may be some day things turn out his way and it did. If he did'nt had any hope then i wouldnt be here."

"So you asked what is it that makes me hope, well, its my father".

You might be thinking what happened to her husband, well he died 1 year after the marriage due to blood cancer.And Jerin's parents got married after 10 years.

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

My Secret Box

Everyone in this world have some naked feelings and truths that they feel awkward to open up infront of friends.But its quite a relief to rip apart your heart,to someone you trust, allowing those suffocating thoughts, memoirs a soothing breeze of fresh air.People are lucky who have that "special" someone in their life,to whom they can open up their feeling and thoughts.

I too belong to that brigade,luckily.I have a friend called J***** ( my secret box ) and i have know her for past 4 years i guess.She's one of my best friend and my secret box.Whenever i am crestfallen its where i dump my thoughts. I know, though my thoughts are at the brightest place on this planet but still its quite dark for anyone to dig them out.Speaking to her, really heals me out and recharges me with a new gusto.
God Bless her........

Monday, May 10, 2010

Love --Just True Love

 Whole day i had been pondering about relationships, love etc. and then i came across a post from Bedazzled Ria which made me pen down this post.
Ria asks

Why is it that people fall in love with someone who they know will never reciprocate their feelings??
 Well i dont know whether i would be able to do full justice to this question but ya i would like to quote some lines from a love letter that a friend of mine send to a girl he loved.

The letter goes this way......

Dear Renuka,

Inspite of knowing the fact that you have never seen me the way i have, i still love you from the bottom of my heart.I loved you without any reasons or expectations because it wont be love if i expected love in return.

 Yours Ravi

And i think only such love is true love which loves without any expectations or reason, like a mother who loves her infant child without thinking whether she will receive the same love back when he grows older.

Lucky are the people who are loved without any expectations.And Ria, people fall in love with someone inspite of knowing that they will never reciprocate their feelings,   ........ coz its TRUE LOVE........

Sunday, May 9, 2010

A Short Humble Request To Sreesanth

 Dear Sreesanth,

I know how you must be feeling, when Preity Zinta hugs Yuvi or Sangakara at the end of every IPL match showing her love for the team, whether it is a win or lose situation. You tried many tricks to get those affectionate hugs, the so called 'jhappis' from the cute actress but all in vain.First you tried it through sentiments by creating a pandemonium on the ground after receiving the slap o' bhajji and flooding the field, which you later stated was a brotherly act from elder brother Harbhajan.When it did'nt shoot off, you tried to impress her with your not so macho behaviour by clapping at rival batsman Michael Lumb and then at the umpires which although didnt got you any 'jhappis' but got some 20 % fee fine.

Now i hope you must be on verge of accepting the fact you really are a dumb ass , which no matter how much is f*****, always lunge at every possible opportunity to get f*****.And i think its really high time that you get your next dose of slap o' bhajji or slap o' ???.

So i humbly request you to please start poking some international players so that they can render you a hard, not a slap this time, but ya a punch and that too right into the face exactly on the nose, and i think it will look good on you and may be it generates some sympathy and you get lucky this time. And please, make sure that all this happens in front of the camera unlike the slap o' bhajji.

So best of luck and eagerly looking forward to some slap o' ???